April 28, 2013
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its how you deliver it.
On Saturday, Mr_54632 and my younger sister went to “brunch” together (a food blog will surely follow).
We sat on a long “shared” table where there were 3 people at the other end and we sat at the other end. My sister and I noticed 3 menus on the table (with nobody sitting there) and assumed that they were to be shared, so we were just looking at them. Then one of the bimbos at the other end pipped up and said to us quite rudely “excuse me, there are 3 people who are going to be there”, so we quickly put them back.
There’s ALWAYS a way to deliver such a statement without offending other people, and the way the bimbo sitting with her 2 friends had delivered it to us was definitely not the way it should have been said.
In fact, it wouldn’t have hurt even if we were looking at the menus considering that we had ordered our meals even before their friends rocked up.
What was MORE insulting was they didn’t even order anything. These bozos of 6 couldn’t work out whether or not they were going to sit there and eat their food or go outside and enjoy the sunshine. In the end, they ended up leaving.
I wished I had told the girl off when she was so rude to us but i didn’t get the chance and it annoyed me to no end. I hate being treated poorly by others just because they for whatever reason left their manners at home or were never taught any manners or learnt to be nice.
I was so agitated by the experience that I was bitching about them out loud to my sister and to Mr_54632 about how nasty those bimbos were and how they could have been a lot nicer to us. Unbeknown to me, one of the bimbos was standing near us (waiting to pay) and would have heard my entire diatribe. yes, that will teach me to bitch behind someone’s back again -_-
But you know what? I don’t feel half as bad as I normally would, actually i don’t feel bad at all for saying those things out loud because frankly, I should have told them off when I had the chance, but it was EVEN better than not telling them off directly.
My sister and Mr_54632 knew that the girl was there but didn’t say anything to me and they watched her wince as I kept raving on about how much of a dumbass they were.
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We suspect that the bimbo would have gone back to her friends and would said “you know those 2 asian chicks on the table with us? they are such bitches!!!! guess what they were saying about us”
Yeh, that’s life. The difference was, I got what I wanted in the end.
-_- LOL- yes not my proudest moment.