Month: September 2012

  • just a little bit more understanding.. please!

    my other half said to me “i’m just letting you know we’re getting to sydney in october, you will need to take a day off on friday”

    You know this MAY have been possible had I not quit my current employer but since i am now starting work on the 1st of october with a new employer, I don’t really see it as a really good idea just skipping work just so that we can in sydney together.

    There is no way I am skipping work, especially in my first month of employment, it would just make me look tardy. I can’t see why he can’t see that??!?! 

    i mean this is the same guy who puts WORK before everything else, including his health. I mean it’s 9.24pm right now and he’s still on the freakin phone to some client. Don’t these people sleep? have families? want social lives?

    If i was the one asking him to just “skip” work for sydney any other given day, the answer would have been something along the lines of “no”. and to have someone especially HIM ask me to do this, is somewhat infuriating and insulting.

     

    I know the guy means well but i also need to work too. And he knows that in the first 6 months I’m on PROBATION. pulling sickies left right and centre isn’t going to get me anywhere except the unemployment life.

     

    Sometimes good intentions can be so frustrating!?!?!?

     

     

  • change is as good as a holiday?

    It was time for a change… hello different xanga design…

     

    I had to do it.. xanga stopped supporting the format in how i wrote my weblog entry.. and they started to take away so many functions..and by updating meant that i ended losing the box thing that i always use to put a border around my work…for whatever reason it does not exist in the new weblog editor functionality (whyyy!??!!??!)

    and now we’re stuck with this…

     

    Yes, instead of the black dark theme… it’s now gone to pink (i know you can see this)…

    and this setup automatically has that “bordered” look that I’ve been after..

    except all of my previous posts look stupid with 2 borders around it..

     

    ahh i’ll survive, just like how you’ll cope with the pink

     

     

     

  • day #11

    Oh boy.. it’s ONLY been 11 days in… and I think I have managed to establish a routine.
    Wake up, swim, go home have lunch. spend couple of hours on the computer…
    nap, dinner, watch some tv.. then sleep

    My bf literally asked me “so what the heck have you been up to every day? you must be bored”
    I was the first week but now im not. My most favourite part of the day is all the swimming..

    I also look forward to writing my blog, technically typing but you get my drift.

    sometimes i try to think of interesting things to talk about but seriously, nothing exciting is actually really happening so I’m out of material…
    well not really but you know what i mean? Like i cant rant about stuff if nothing is happening.. HAHAH

    oh wait, I lie.
    I put an enquiry in last week with the reception -Manor on High but to date I have no heard anything from them.
    I put another enquiry in today so i’ll give them until tuesday of next week.
    if i have to call them, then I’m definately going to scrap them off my list. what kind of business doesnt answer emails? wtf.

    have been looking at wedding cakes and wtf $550 for 3 tiered cake. highway robbery i tell ya. at this rate, i’m going to learn to bake a crappy chocolate mud cake and poison everybody.. i mean feed.
    hahahahah

  • day #10

    Today I waited almost 2 hrs at the dentist. I wasn’t the one needing any dental work done as I was accompanying my aunty. She was far from impressed…with the dentist that is.

    She had some work done yesterday and found that it was hurting and making it difficult for her to eat. She made an appointment for 3.15pm and we were there early from 2.45pm

    The dentist didn’t see my aunty until 4pm. Granted that he was 45minutes but what the heck.

    She walked away with nothing other than anti-biotics which annoyed her to no end.

    Oh wells.

    on other news…
    one of my friends came over to my house yesterday and i made dinner. I rarely make dinner, even more if it’s vegetarian food…
    and so I embarked on a cooking journey that spanned over 3 hours. i ended up making a vegetable soup and a tofu stir fry.

    My mum thought the stir fry was fabulous (and she’s a tough cook)

    soooo

    SUCCESS!!!

    oh- on the 6th of october, my partner and i are checking out our venue and hopefully put down a deposit. Getting very excited atm.

  • 11 years ago today

    They say.. every person literally remembers what they were doing at that moment the terrorists struck and took down the twin towers, hundreds of lives lost and with that the innocence and naivety of the world was taken away.

    I remember I was watching tv at the time, and then all of a sudden the news was broadcasting, I couldn’t believe my eyes. At first I seriously thought the tv was broken.
    I remember watching in disbelief like many millions across the world who witnessed the second plane crashing into the towers.

    I also remember a few days prior to this event, in our religious education class we had started watching “On the beach” which is an apocalyptic movie. Basically the world had died or was dying and the ONLY current surviving humans happened to live in Melbourne after some nuclears bombs had been detonated.
    I remember all of us watching this film thought this was extremely far fetched considering we were a generation of kids who lived in peace times. There were no nuclear threats, no terrorism, nothing to fear…

    And then September 11 happened.

    I remember clearly watching the ending of the movie after the Sept 11 attacks (because we only obviously watched 1/2 way through prior) and almost cried, other students did cry, traumatized at what had happened with September 11… and what we had dismissed as potentially NEVER EVER could happen in a million years… well frankly after September 11 event, basically everything was up in the air.

    Looking back now, I feel sorry for the religious education teacher who had to go through with showing us the movie. I think in normal circumstances, most students watching this (as part of the normal curriculum) would have easily dismissed it, had a normal class discussion on whether or not the end of the world was possible and write a discussion paper.
    Instead, this teacher now had to deal with wailing kids freaked out to the core that potentially their lives were at stake.
    There were a lot of questions asked, none of whom the teacher had answers for…

    but it was and still is an experience I’d always will remember.

    Personally for me, I avoid watching the Sept 11 memorial/documentaries because it makes me sad that we lost so many innocent people who were just going about their normal daily lives (you know like work), but also angry because there are people out there as callous and EVIL enough to want to hurt so many people.
    But even if I avoid watching these things, it doesn’t mean I forget or that I dismiss these shows/documentaries. These things have their place and there are obviously people who want to watch this to remember. We can remember however we like…

    And no matter what happens 10 years from now, or 20 years or even 60 years.. I’ll always remember.
    September 11 2001 changed our lives forever.

  • day #9

    I forgot to write a day #8 blog…:( but does it matter? probably not.

    Interesting things I found out in the last couple of days:
    - the traffic to my blog has mostly been bored friends. Hello Friends! thanks for NOT commenting much.. except for one. but still…
    -one of my friends receives an update via email of my blog. How cool is that.. i forgot that functionality existed. Hello Friend!
    -my apologies for spelling and grammatical errors. I got told the other day “linda, why is your writing so bad? don’t you read your work?” no i dont. i just write, then submit.. i stopped reading a long time ago because truth be told.. I BORE myself to sleep (no kidding)… so my readers, i know you’re here just to kill some time!

    On other news:
    -my arm feels like it’s literally going to drop off because of all that swimming i have been doing. I can’t believe I’m waking up at 7.30am and rushing out the door to be at the swimming pools by 7.45am. I figured i dont need to brush my hair anymore because it’s going to get wet anyway.
    -i am now having to wear a swimming cap. I detest the damned things because i find them hard to put on but NOT only that i feel like i’m wearing a giant condom on my head. but i had to wear it because the chlorine is going to make my hair snap off. Plus I HATE the smell of chlorine in my hair.
    -after 7.30am when the school kids are done swimming (part of the swimming squad), it’s OLD people galore at the pools. I have never met so many old people in my life.. okay maybe at a nursing home but still!!! So this is where they hangout during the day!
    -our washing machine is about to die… it keeps telling us that there is an uneven load. i took so many things out and it still beeps stupid warnings and refuses to work. I think it’s time we replaced it. It did almost last 10 years.
    - daytime tv is MEGA boring… the only thing i look forward to is ELLEN.. other than that, everything is crap. what the fuck are housewives watching!?!?!? seriously?!
    -bf comes home from Canberra today! YAY! one more person to annoy ..
    -finding that my second week is going faster than my first week on leave.. which is a good/bad sign. Good because im bored, bad because i have to go to work soon. i know u just can’t win sometimes.

  • overworked

    My partner works some incredible hours… for example he was working all day sunday and didn’t get into bed until 2am.
    Then he was up at 5.45am to catch a flight out to canberra.

    My parents worry about him because they keep saying “if he keeps this up, he’d die”
    die of what.. im not sure

    but the stress would probably get to him eventually.

    Unfortunately the hours that he does are quite consistently retarded, they are long hours. But apparently if he does the hard yards now, the rewards will eventually at some point…. hopefully come. if they don’t obviously it was all for nothing.

    but these hours are very typical of your large top tier firms of any kind…
    these companies KNOW how to work their staff to the ground….

    im tired of just thinking about how much he works..

  • what date?

    Oh man… i am so pissed off.

    I want to get married on the 26th of April 2014 because it works out to be a convenient date. The friday before happens to be Anzac day so it’s a day off which means we can get stuff done and not have to waste a single day of annual leave.

    But you know, my mum and aunty INSISTED that they must get the date check…
    which of course turns out is VERY bad date… how bad? my parents dont know how to explain to me, they just say it’s bad and that I’m supposed to apparently get married on the 5th.. but even that’s not clear.
    do you know why it’s not clear because it’s like there’s some communication breakdown (with vietnamese people too) about whether it’s the 5th of april the normal calendar or the lunar calendar.. seriously wtf. so wtf? how am i supposed to book the venue.

    and then my parents are like “if you dont believe in this stuff, then we dont have to do this?” W TF?!?!?! im not the one whos insisting to have a look in the first place..
    and then they’re like “you can still get married on the 26th of april if you dont believe in this stuff”

    that shat me to no end.
    firstly- it was not ME who wants to check the freakin lunar calendar..
    secondly-am i just meant to forget the fact that it’s meant to be one of the most bad luck days etc etc” and supposed to be okay with that?

    yeah right???

    How am i supposed to believe this shit in the first place… i mean plenty of cousins where their parents searched for auspicious days to ensure that husband and wife have the best day which just ended up in divorce.
    So much for “checking out and getting the best fucken date”

    seriously sometimes superstition can go eat fucken shit.

  • day#7

    Woke up to a message from a friend asking for my address because she needs to send out a wedding invitation….

    It’s exciting stuff… because i didn’t know the couple were even dating. I remember 3 years ago, I had asked them the question and it was major denial.
    Then 6mths ago we found out that they were dating… well openly holding hands (under the table), not sure what the secrecy was about… but even then I was asking ‘are they dating? because u know.. if they’re not, thats just weird’
    and BAM they announced their engagement…

    and i was like ” I KNEW IT!”

    but seriously why the denial? i will never know because its not a question i’m going to ask “hey how come when we asked you if you were dating when it clearly looked like you were you were hiding it? whats the deal?”

    no idea..
    anyway so now I have their wedding to go to…

    i make strange friends thats for sure

    on other news.. yesterday I hung out with 2 of my awesome friends…we had gone to pacific house (cbd) for late lunch/early dinner (the rice was crap), had tutti frutti dessert, then after that we rocked up to another dessert place in maribynong… and finally after dropping one friend off home, we finished the night with a kebab… all this from 3pm to 11pm..

    seriously.. i think i’m still full.

    but nonetheless.. catchup with friends is always exciting….

    Oh and i proudly did another 1hr lap in the swimming pools… except thats now wasted by the kebab and yoghurt i downed yesterday *cries*

  • day#6

    The phone rang at 8am in the morning. It was the boring ringing to “talk”, he had assumed that I’d be awake going to the swimming pools… but he was WRONG.

    my aunty who visits the pool almost on a daily basis said the pools are somewhat congested in the mornings-weekends only.
    you know kids doing squads, lessons and the like.

    so i figured i’d go at 12.. like wake up at 11 and stuff. you know because it’s a saturday!!!

    i have no idea why, but there is NOTHING interesting on tv to watch on saturday mornings!?!?!? so i always TRY to sleep in…

    some sleep in.

    but nonetheless, i have woken up and found that my arms are extremely sore.. my legs, not so much.
    my cousins insists that i do squats.. is he kidding me? squats hurt lots. but he did point out that if it didn’t hurt, then i wouldnt get results.

    take it from me, try maintain ur weight, dont let it balloon out to 20kgs+ like me, because working out trying to get there.. is even harder work!!!

    exercising is one thing, diet is the biggest factor. i keep getting told 80% food, 20% exercise.

    this 20% is killing me